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Friday, January 9, 2009

JUST LEARNT A NEW LESSON

JUST LEARNT A NEW LESSON
YES… I ve recently learnt a new lesson in my life…
People say that if u r really close to someone… if u really have a true friend… then that friend will always listen to u before u speak… he/she will always understand u even before u explain… but I personally believe that this is all false… all this seems gud in talks but this is something far from reality…
I don’t know if any of u might have experienced it or not… but since I have, I know how it is…
When u seriously need someone… when u desperately need to talk to someone… when u actually need a true friend… u have no one…
It’s just YOU and Ur LORD… yes, Ur lord… who’ll never leave u apart…
EXPECTATIONS for anyone can turn out to be troubles sometime…
If u keep ur expectations too high for anyone… it does become a problem at some point of ur life… the sooner we understand this, the better we can prevent the trouble…
If u expect too much from someone, its ur fault not his/hers.
I‘ll tell u how I learnt this lesson:-
Recently, I have been going through great stress in my life… and these are the times when u can expect ur friends to be with u… and u do start expecting too much from them… and there u go wrong… as I did… and wat was I left with… nothing but disappointment…
But never the less… I have finally realized that even if I have “nobody” with me… but I always have him… MY LORD… who’s always listening to me… caring for me…
SO… BELIEVING THAT IT’S BETTER TO LOWER EXPECTATIONS FROM PEOPLE THAN TO FACE DISAPPOINTMENT IN THE END… I have finally lowered my expectations from everyone…
And I feel much better now…
Nd, moreover… one thing that I would like to tell everyone is that… if u really need someone… don’t wait for the person to understand… just go and talk to him/her…
Don’t let a communication gap weaken ur relationship with anyone…
Though my friends didn’t understand me at this time of my life… but I still say that I have true friends… and the bestest friends… coz I know that if they had any idea about my condition… they would have always supported me… and they did support me…always… MORALLY…
But trust me people… if u really have someone in ur life who does understand u beyond ur words… then don’t, in any case, let ur relationship with the person weaken, in any way… coz that person must be MORE THAN THE WORLD… FOR U…

Friday, January 2, 2009

NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS
So, yesterday, We finally ended up with another year… YEAR 2008… nd here cums 2009……
WELCOME
After going thru the whole 2008, that actually taught me so many lessons with so many experiences… the cuming of 2009 was lyk a grand event that demanded a grand celebratioin…
Lyk all the other years, here comes another one full of HOPES, COLORS (of joys and sorrows), NEW EXPERIENCES… nd wat not…
As we enter another year… we have new plans, new hopes, nd new promises made to ourselves wat we call as NEW YEAR RESOLUTIONS… but how many times did we abide by them????? How many years have ended with the fulfillment of the promises that we made to ourselves at the beginning of the year??? Wat was ur resolution as 2008 began… u don’t even remember… hardly any of us does…
Its not that we don’t know that v are not going to follow our resolutions… its just that we don’t give up… we still have those bright rays of hopes lit in our hearts that yes… some day… we will fulfill our resolutions… nd we continue to make them… even today we still have a long list of resolutions that we have made for 2009… though even we know that the list will just remain a piece of paper that ll be thrown away in the trash box very soon nd by the end of the year we ll hardly remember any of our resolutions…
You must be wondering if this girl is against making any kind of resolutions in our lives…… NO.. its not so…
As… even I have my own resolutions for 2009. my resolution IS to study harder this year… I m writing this entry at 11pm on the 1st of Jan… nd I had planned to spend the whole day today studying… and GUESS WAT? I have not yet studied a word…
So there goes my resolution…
Making resolutions in your lives is not wrong… In fact, Its very important… but I think, before we MAKE any kind of RESOUTION in our life… we shud first MAKE up our MIND to abide by it… lyk, if my resolution is to study harder this year… even if I didn’t study today… I still have a whole year ahead to stand by my resolution, right?
I mean… even if I wasted one day enjoying myself(which is not wrong)… I still have 364 days ahead… in which I m seriously going to try working hard…
So friends… don’t stop making resolutions… if u have not yet made them, then make them now… as they are really important in our life…
SOME RESOLUTIONS CAN BRING ABOUT GR8 CHANGES IN UR LIVES… which may not give u success but will definitely act as a stepping stone towards success…
Whatever be ur resolutions this year… just go and chase them… but before that, add one more to them… i.e. TO have much more faith in god than last year…
Bcoz………

JUST AS ANGELS ARE ATTRACTED
TO LIGHT OF JOY AND KINDNESS…
SO ARE MIRACLES,
THAT ARE ATTRACTED TO THE
LAMP OF FAITH.
INNOCENT TEENAGERS

This entry goes for all my teenager frnds…..
How many days back did u sit with Ur mom and talked to her for an hour or so…...???Or how many days back did u get sum time to have an outing with Ur family……..??I guess dat must be long back…
Have u ever realized dat in the rat race of this world…we have forgotten some of those valuable people in our life, who do make a difference to us….?????? These ppl include our frnds, teachers nd even our parents (believe it or not)… and trust me, it’s not our fault in any way… coz we, the INNOCENT TEENAGERS are being pissed by the world around us… I mean its not dat someone is after us……forcing us to do well… but the world is going so fast dat if u don’t pick up, u ll certainly lag behind….nd thus lose the tide of time…
If we don’t find a solution to this very soon, v ll certainly find ourselves totally screwed up with everything… even if we cannot spend much time with everyone around us…we can at least call them up sometimes nd tell them once in a while dat we love them so much…and we do care for them. ..Trust me; even these words of yours will give them utter happiness…….
So, next time, when u feel u have unintentionally ignored somebody, just walk up to them and tell them how much u care…

Coz u might have sometime ignored someone for whom u were their world….